Five Books · Four Decades of Practice

Books by David Bedrick

Grounded, practice-based work on shame, trauma, the body, and social change — written across four decades of counseling, teaching, and listening closely.

Portrait of David Bedrick, contemplative in warm light

About the Author

David Bedrick, JD, Dipl. PW, is a counselor, educator, and social activist. He is the founder of the Santa Fe Institute for Shame-Based Studies and creator of The UnShaming Way — a compassion-based approach to working with trauma and shame.

His work has reached hundreds of thousands of people through five books, online courses, international trainings, and a community of practitioners on six continents. He has been featured in Psychology Today, HuffPost, The Advocate, and many more.

"You're not broken. You never were."

Book cover: The Unshaming Way by David Bedrick — A Compassionate Guide to Dismantling Shame

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The Unshaming Way

A Compassionate Guide to Dismantling Shame — Heal from trauma, unlearn self-blame, and reclaim your story

“In this astute work, David Bedrick provides a deep investigation of shame, the most debilitating of our mind states, and offers a workable, practice-based, and accessible path to divesting ourselves from it.”
— Gabor Maté, MD, New York Times best-selling author of In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts

Shame affects us all — often in ways we might not expect. David helps us understand how shame shows up and offers a stigma-free model for loosening its hold on our lives.

Shame is more than feeling guilty, sad, or responsible. It develops when we experience a hurt but can't access the tools or freedom to express how we feel — or are denied the ability to ask for the care we need. It shows up when we aren't witnessed: whatever happened to you, these parts of you that you think are unlovable or wrong — you're not broken. I see you.

Bedrick helps readers bring shame out of the shadows and listen to its wisdom without minimizing trauma or pathologizing experience. He offers practical tools and exercises to dismantle the narratives that hold us back from living whole, free, and in alignment with our most authentic selves.

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New to my work? Start with The Unshaming Way.

Book cover: The Unshaming Way Workbook by David Bedrick — Exercises and Reflection Questions to Heal from Trauma, Unlearn Self-Blame, and Reclaim Your Story

The Unshaming Way Workbook

Exercises and Reflection Questions to Heal from Trauma, Unlearn Self-Blame, and Reclaim Your Story

A hands-on companion to The Unshaming Way — a step-by-step guide to the core practice. Through prompts, reflections, and exercises, the workbook makes David's method more practical and accessible.

Walking through the three keys to healing shame — seeing, feeling, and believing — you'll learn to unburden yourself of complex and childhood trauma, trust yourself, and free yourself from the compulsive idea that you need to be "fixed." As one reader wrote: "Nothing has helped me more in all my years to be able to love and appreciate myself more fully."

“For anyone who's read The Unshaming Way and wondered 'how do I actually practice this?' — here's the answer.”
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Book cover: You Can't Judge a Body by Its Cover by David Bedrick — 17 Women's Stories of Hunger, Body Shame, and Redemption

You Can't Judge a Body by Its Cover

17 Women's Stories of Hunger, Body Shame, and Redemption

Seventeen women open the door to their souls: stories of shame and self-love, victimization and empowerment, being small and being big, fear and hope. In illuminating therapeutic interviews, you'll witness women discovering the secret behind their resistance to diet programs, the beauty of their bodies and hungers, and the insights that move them to reclaim authenticity, power, and grace.

Get ready to be moved. Get ready to see it differently. Get ready to meet the quiet truths held within your body's rebellion against a culture that fetishizes thinness and shames authenticity.

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Book cover: Revisioning Activism by David Bedrick — Bringing Depth, Dialogue, and Diversity to Individual and Social Change

Revisioning Activism

Bringing Depth, Dialogue, and Diversity to Individual and Social Change

Many forms of activism live in the margins of more conventional strategies. These essays broaden our vision of activism to include how the social and political world shapes the inner lives of people, how dialogue across diverse viewpoints can move hearts and minds, and how psychology can play a role as an agent of social change.

Bedrick deconstructs racism by looking at divergent views of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. He deconstructs sexism by critiquing the diet industry and the ways women feel about their bodies. He brings the same psychological eye to societal problems (gun control, addiction), national figures (Robin Williams, Lance Armstrong), and popular psychology's failure to create sustainable change.

Whether read in a classroom, with a friend, or alone, Revisioning Activism provokes critical thinking, feeling, and dialogue. It's a call to see ourselves as individuals intimately woven into a web of relationships and social issues.

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Book cover: Talking Back to Dr. Phil by David Bedrick — Alternatives to Mainstream Psychology

Talking Back to Dr. Phil

Alternatives to Mainstream Psychology

David introduces a fresh approach to understanding disturbing feelings and behaviors. Using examples from the television show Dr. Phil, he illustrates mainstream psychology's tendency to shame people into thinking something is wrong with them — and carefully unpacks many standard protocols and "fixes."

Drawing on topics including dieting, sex, anger, addictions, and domestic violence, Bedrick offers a love-based psychology rooted in the belief that there is meaning in our struggles, which can come into view when they are compassionately reframed.

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DAVID BEDRICK
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DAVID BEDRICK
About
Books
Podcast
Courses
Europe Workshops
Ready to get Trauma-Informed?
About
Books
Podcast
Courses
Europe Workshops
Ready to get Trauma-Informed?