David Bedrick | UnShame Your Life
The UnShaming Way

You can't heal trauma
without healing shame.

UnShaming is a paradigm-shifting approach to trauma healing that finds the intelligence, meaning, and soul in the very things we've been taught to hide or fix.

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David Bedrick provides a deep investigation of shame, the most debilitating of our mind states, and offers a workable, practice-based, and accessible path to divesting ourselves from it.

Gabor Maté, MD Author of In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts
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What Is UnShaming

Stop fixing yourself.
Start understanding yourself.

Most healing approaches treat your symptoms, struggles, and difficult behaviors as problems to be corrected. UnShaming takes a fundamentally different view.

When you UnShame, you stop viewing the things you're ashamed of as broken parts that need to be fixed. Instead, you begin to see them as invitations to embrace your wholeness — doorways to insight, soul, and a deeper relationship with yourself.

The result is a life liberated from self-judgment, connected to your inner intelligence, and attuned to a profound sense of wellness.

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Shame is not the problem — it's a messenger

The things you've been taught to hide carry intelligence. UnShaming helps you hear what they're saying.

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Trauma lives in the body and the story

Healing requires working with both — the somatic experience and the narrative that keeps you stuck.

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Your symptoms hold your medicine

Codependency, addiction, anger, illness — each carries wisdom when approached with the right framework.

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Healing is fast when shame is addressed at the root

UnShaming is one of the most impactful and fast-working approaches available — for individuals and practitioners alike.

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40+
Years of research, teaching & clinical work
About David

A lifetime devoted to
understanding shame

I'm the author of The Unshaming Way, a teacher, counselor, and attorney. I founded the Santa Fe Institute for Shame-Based Studies, where I educate therapists, coaches and healers worldwide.

"In this astute work, David Bedrick provides a deep investigation of shame, the most debilitating of our mind states, and offers a workable, practice-based, and accessible path to divesting ourselves from it."

— Gabor Maté, MD

My passion for studying shame arose from my own childhood. Forty years of research and working with thousands of individuals awakened my heart and mind to how the dominant healing paradigm pathologizes people — treating suffering as something to fix, rather than a message that deepens our relationship with ourselves.

My embodied way of teaching goes beyond informational. Students are regularly brought face to face with their beauty, power, and soul purpose.

What people are saying

From therapists and coaches to individuals seeking personal healing — the UnShaming work changes people.

★★★★★

"Working with David has allowed me to see people in their wholeness and aid them in integrating parts of themselves they may have previously judged or shunned."

Coach & Healer
★★★★★

"The training has not only revolutionized my coaching skills but also transformed me as a person: I feel more compassionate, more powerful, more authentically myself."

Certified Facilitator
★★★★★

"Wow, that was INCREDIBLE. So many aha's — personally and for my work with clients."

Workshop Participant
★★★★★

"If the whole world had David as their witness, the world would be healed. He has such deep presence and genuinely cares."

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